Saturday, 24 February 2018

Baby Dig Loves Dragon Fruit

February 24, 2018 0 Comments


Ah, it's been weeks I didn't post anything. What can I say, I have busy days. Baby Dig is now 9 months old. He is able to crawl now and learn to stand up. I can't let him alone by himself for too long. I have to always look at him or else I will be worry about what he's doing. Well, you know the feeling if you happened to experience once.

At his age, Baby Dig has already eaten almost anything. Well, actually it is because he always asks for what I hold in my hands. Anything. So, everytime I have some meal, I offer him one. And he usually grab what I give him or simply opens with mouth. Sooo funny...

Baby Dig has eaten home cook meal. I prepare him food in the morning so he can have breakfast at around 9 a.m. He eats soft rice with veggies and chicken or tofu or fish or fried tempeh. He likes what I cook. Alhamdulillah.

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I once bought him baby biscuits, but, he refused to eat them. My elder sons had them after all. He also doesn't like porridge or baby food I bought. I think he really loves my cooking. He eats 3 times a day, in the morning, around noon and in the afternoon. Each meal time has 4 hours in between.

What about fruit?


My eldest son, Big D, didn't really like fruits when he was younger. It was because I didn't introduce fruits to him as early as possible. Well, new mom makes mistakes, right? So, for Baby Dig, I don't wanna make the same mistake. I tried to introduce some fruits in any varieties, but Baby Dig seemed not too interested. I began to worry... Moms always worry, right?

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One morning, I ate dragon fruit and was thinking to give Baby Dig a try. I was worried about the seeds. I was afraid the seeds would burden his stomach. So, I filtered the fruit and served him the liquid only. No fruit flesh, no seeds.

He loved it!

The next time I gave him a small amount of dragon fruit with the flesh and seeds. He chewed it happily and asked for another. I was thinking that I would wait for the allergic reaction or something before I gave him another try.

The next morning, baby Dig showed no bad reaction. His poo was reddish but in good consistency. So, I decided to continue the menu. Alhamdulillah.

After some time, I read about giving dragon fruit for baby. It is one of the recommended fruit for babies anyway. Served raw and the seeds aren't big deal for babies' digestive. That's what I see with Baby Dig. And what I like the most from dragon fruit is its fiber. It really really helps a lot in Baby Dig's poo. Dragon fruit itself is also rich in vitamin C. Tastes good and easy to chew even for 5 teethed baby like Baby Dig.



Friday, 16 February 2018

Kids Activity: Fun Flower Maze

February 16, 2018 0 Comments

Dear parents and teachers,

Doing great activity with kids can be started from their early age. Playing mazes can be fun. Here is another guest post from Education.com.

If you are interested in doing a guest post, please feel free to contact me via email: diah.d.arti@gmail.com.

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Spring into learning with this fun flower maze. For more engaging preschool activities, go to Education.com!

Thursday, 1 February 2018

The Freedom To Wear Hijab For Muslim Women

February 01, 2018 4 Comments

What an interesting idea to write about muslim women's freedom to wear hijab! It's World Hijab Day, February 1st, so I'm going to talk about how muslim women celebrate their freedom in wearing hijab.

I should thank Allah for what He has Given us here in Indonesia: a freedom to wear hijab in almost all work spaces. We can find hijabis almost everywhere. They may be students, teachers, civil servants, police officers, doctors, lecturers, etc.

Back to years when wearing hijab was still very 'dangerous' here. Some hijabis couldn't go to school unless they took off their hijabs. Some muslim girls couldn't reach their dream jobs because they wore hijabs. Some ought to obey the rules of their work place and did an on-and-off in wearing hijabs.

I myself faced hard years as a hijabi. Even my Daddy (Allahu yarham - May Allah Loves him) didn't agree at first and said that I would take it on just for several days. My Dad said,  "Quran says that hijab is better but to wear usual cloths are just one level below it: good. That way, wearing non-hijab isn't bad."

My Daddy was wrong. The verse he meant was Al-A'raf (chapter 7) verse 26 below:
"O children of Adam, We have bestowed upon you clothing to conceal your private parts and as adornment. But the clothing of righteousness -  that is best. That is from the signs of Allah that perhaps they will remember."

I cried inside my heart, hoping that my Daddy would understand.  Alhamdulillah, later he became one of the best protectors I had in wearing hijab.

It's understandable now why he once refused my hijab. He was a national air force officer at the moment. And it's no secret that there was a bad islamophobia inside the institution around 20 years ago (long before 9/11 attack). I felt the pressure of being a hijabi as we lived in the air force housing complex. I can say there were only a few muslimah dared to wear hijab.

At that time you couldn't get your driving license (even if you had passed the test) if you wore hijab for your photograph of the license card. You must put your hijab off during your turn of the photo session which was run in a public area.

You had to sign a specific letter when you put your photograph with hijab for your graduation certificate. 

How sad. But, alhamdulillah, slowly but sure, Allah's Will, hijabis started to be seen here and there and gained their freedom little by little.

What about now? We really should thank Allah, there is no problem to wear hijab. The biggest matter now is how and when we wear it. There are great quantity of hijabis. But, how about the quality? We should question it.

Many students wear hijab to schools but they put it off immediately right after they get home. They change their clothes to shirts, show their hands, legs and hair off. They do it as if it's no sin to wear hijab on-and-off. How pity.

Not only students who do that. Many, many muslim women do the same. They go to work wearing hijab, then put it off when they get home. I say, hijab is just like a uniform for such muslim women. Double sad.

So, could the word 'freedom' mean different for them? Could it be "free to choose between wearing it or unwearing it". Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. I hope I'm wrong. I hope they are struggling to find  ways to wear hijab everytime they go.
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